“You make my heart beat like the rain Surround me Hold me deep beneath your weight And every night my mind is running around her Then it’s getting louder and … Continue reading Maybe it’s not a Crush. Maybe You’ve Just Figured Out what You’re Looking for.
“You cannot co-parent with a narcissist. I repeat, YOU. CANNOT. CO-PARENT. WITH. A. NARCISSIST.”—Jenny Penland “You Can’t Co-Parent With A Toxic Ex, But You Can Do This Instead” If you are … Continue reading Spot on Advice: “You Can’t Co-Parent With A Toxic Ex, But You Can Do This Instead”
“This kitty cat lost her mind Been lookin’ for a star-sent sign that I’ll be alright Look to the skies” —”Rainbows” by Kesha It’s been a year since I started … Continue reading Where does that highway go to?
Dear Lawyer, I want you to know that I’m deeply appreciative of the role you’ve played in my liberation. I could not have navigated the convoluted process of divorce without … Continue reading An Open Letter to My Lawyer: things to know when representing victims of narcissistic abuse
“What does that have to do with the price of tea in China?”—colloquialism Recently I reviewed Richard Gannon’s video about narcissists’ use of word salad and I promised you I’d … Continue reading It’s Ping Pong: Lessons in Communicating with a Narcissist
“Rather than blissfully lacking a sense of morality, like the sociopath, they are continually engaged in sweeping the evidence of their evil under the rug of their own consciousness.”—M. Scott … Continue reading Projection: Lessons in Communicating with a Narcissist
“It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness. That is life.”—Captain Jean-Luc Picard Unwinable. Never ending. False bottom. How could I forget the … Continue reading Unwinable
“When you ask a psychopath a straightforward question that requires a straightforward answer, he usually goes round and round in circles or talks about something else altogether.”—Claudia Moscovici, “Dangerous Mind … Continue reading Circumlocution: Lessons in Communicating with a Narcissist
“Narcissists (and often, by contagion, their unfortunate victims) don’t talk, or communicate: they fend off, hide and evade . . . The ensuing convoluted sentences are .. a lack of … Continue reading Gray Rocks: Lessons in Communicating with a Narcissist